Non-Autistic Perspective
Looking forward to the thought of having a few days off work.
Love seeing lots of presents under the tree – even though not all of them are surprises.
Inviting people round to celebrate with the aim of recreating the M&S advert. Obviously, there’s no other place to be over Christmas than at your house. Which is decorated to within an inch of its life and has no evidence of anyone actually living there.
Having a full fridge of food to consume but not knowing what to eat.
Finding all the Christmas movies to watch over the festive period, but then moaning about all the repeats whilst making sure you have the obligatory hot chocolate, even though it’s far too sweet.
Feeling that this year you will get it right and it will be one for the memory.
Autistic Person’s Perspective
It’s nice having time off work to take a break from the repetitive routine and having the freedom to do what I would like to when I would like to.
The magic of Christmas that comes from believing in Santa Claus and the North Pole.
A small pile of presents based on thought and effort rather than size and price. I like presents which are going to be enjoyed, not put in a drawer never to be seen again.
Prefer a quiet Christmas with a few family members where I can spend all day in my pyjamas.
Would prefer Christmas crackers without the bang so that I do not have to fear pulling a cracker before enjoying a nice traditional turkey Christmas dinner.
A time for joy and happiness, although it is nice to take a moment to think of those who are no longer with us. It is also a time to reflect on past Christmas memories as well as making new ones.
Conclusion
People like to celebrate Christmas in different ways. Some people like to surround themselves with family and friends and have a big celebration, while others prefer to keep things small and quiet. Both ways of celebrating work if it makes the person happy.
There is no right or wrong way to celebrate Christmas, if what you do is comfortable and achievable. It is about joy and happiness and should be less about stress and worry.
Most important for all is to have a Merry Christmas.
By Nicola Martin & Sue Pigott
